生活语录

I think and think and think, I‘ve thought myself out of happiness one million times, but never once into it.

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation. From the desperate city you go into the desperate country, and have to console yourself with the bravery of minks and muskrats. A stereotyped but unconscious despair is concealed even under what are called the games and amusements of mankind. There is no play in them, for this comes after work. But it is a characteristic of wisdom not to do desperate things..

You get what anybody gets - you get a lifetime.

Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God's kindness: kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile.

I'm happy. Which often looks like crazy.

I don’t know what’s worse: to not know what you are and be happy, or to become what you’ve always wanted to be, and feel alone.

It is not the length of life, but the depth.

Luxury is not a necessity to me, but beautiful and good things are.

Do not set aside your happiness. Do not wait to be happy in the future. The best time to be happy is always now.

When you consider things like the stars, our affairs don't seem to matter very much, do they?

Don't aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run—in the long-run, I say!—success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it

If the real world were a book, it would never find a publisher. Overlong, detailed to the point of distraction-and ultimately, without a major resolution.

Even After All this timeThe Sun never says to the Earth,"You owe me."LookWhat happensWith a love like that,It lights the whole sky.

I sit beside the fire and think Of all that I have seenOf meadow flowers and butterfliesIn summers that have beenOf yellow leaves and gossamerIn autumns that there wereWith morning mist and silver sunAnd wind upon my hairI sit beside the fire and thinkOf how the world will beWhen winter comes without a spring That I shall ever seeFor still there are so many thingsThat I have never seenIn every wood in every springThere is a different greenI sit beside the fire and thinkOf people long agoAnd people that will see a worldThat I shall never knowBut all the while I sit and thinkOf times there were beforeI listen for returning feet And voices at the door

The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer someone else up.

They say I'm old-fashioned, and live in the past, but sometimes I think progress progresses too fast!

When the first baby laughed for the first time, its laugh broke into a thousand pieces, and they all went skipping about, and that was the beginning of fairies.

To choose doubt as a philosophy of life is akin to choosing immobility as a means of transportation.

I don't like people who have never fallen or stumbled. Their virtue is lifeless and it isn't of much value. Life hasn't revealed its beauty to them.

Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well.

But how could you live and have no story to tell?

I am not proud, but I am happy; and happiness blinds, I think, more than pride.

I like flaws. I think they make things interesting.

Stop comparing yourself to other people, just choose to be happy and live your own life.

No matter how careful you are, there's going to be the sense you missed something, the collapsed feeling under your skin that you didn't experience it all. There's that fallen heart feeling that you rushed right through the moments where you should've been paying attention.Well, get used to that feeling. That's how your whole life will feel some day.This is all practice.

please believe that things are good with me, and even when they're not, they will be soon enough. And i will always believe the same about you.

The trouble is if you don’t spend your life yourself, other people spend it for you.

إن المرأة تحب رجلها ليس لأنه أقوى الرجال، و لا أوسمهم، و لا أغناهم، بل لأنه هو.. بضعفه و قوته.. و الحب ليس إستعراض قوة لكنه طاقة عطاء دافئة مستمرة

Man only likes to count his troubles; he doesn't calculate his happiness.

Happiness is holding someone in your arms and knowing you hold the whole world.

Don’t try to make life a mathematics problem with yourself in the center and everything coming out equal. When you’re good, bad things can still happen. And if you’re bad, you can still be lucky.

The saddest people I've ever met in life are the ones who don't care deeply about anything at all. Passion and satisfaction go hand in hand, and without them, any happiness is only temporary, because there's nothing to make it last.

It's all in the view. That's what I mean about forever, too. For any one of us our forever could end in an hour, or a hundred years from now. You never know for sure, so you'd better make every second count.

There is only one sin. and that is theft... when you tell a lie, you steal someones right to the truth.

We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.

I must learn to be content with being happier than I deserve.

Remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I’ve taken for granted.

A learning experience is one of those things that says, 'You know that thing you just did? Don't do that.

I've got nothing to do today but smile.

A purpose of human life, no matter who is controlling it, is to love whoever is around to be loved.

A good traveler has no fixed plans and is not intent on arriving.

Life, he realize, was much like a song. In the beginning there is mystery, in the end there is confirmation, but it's in the middle where all the emotion resides to make the whole thing worthwhile.

That it will never come again is what makes life so sweet.

Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get

The reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.

Don't you think it's better to be extremely happy for a short while, even if you lose it, than to be just okay for your whole life?

The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.

It's been my experience that you can nearly always enjoy things if you make up your mind firmly that you will.

Don't be afraid of death; be afraid of an unlived life. You don't have to live forever, you just have to live.

Happiness is the consequence of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly in the manifestations of your own blessings. And once you have achieved a state of happiness, you must never become lax about maintaining it. You must make a mighty effort to keep swimming upward into that happiness forever, to stay afloat on top of it.

أحيانًا يساعدنا الآخرون بأن يكونوا فى حياتنا فحسب

Don't take life too seriously. Punch it in the face when it needs a good hit. Laugh at it.

This is your life and its ending one moment at a time.

Life is to be enjoyed, not endured

Albus Severus," Harry said quietly, so that nobody but Ginny could hear, and she was tactful enough to pretend to be waving to Rose, who was now on the train, "you were named for two headmasters of Hogwarts. One of them was a Slytherin and he was probably the bravest man I ever knew.

Of all forms of caution, caution in love is perhaps the most fatal to true happiness.

HopeSmiles from the threshold of the year to come, Whispering 'it will be happier'...

If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain.

A woman has to live her life, or live to repent not having lived it.

I am not sure that I exist, actually. I am all the writers that I have read, all the people that I have met, all the women that I have loved; all the cities I have visited.

Live to the point of tears.

The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him.

It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it's so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn't coma back. You're left so alone that you can't explain. Damn, there's nothing like that, is there? I've been there and you have too. You're nodding your head.

Life is pain, highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.

If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were.

You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness.

My experience of life is that it is not divided up into genres; it’s a horrifying, romantic, tragic, comical, science-fiction cowboy detective novel. You know, with a bit of pornography if you're lucky.

The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it's all that matters.

Take responsibility of your own happiness, never put it in other people’s hands.

People aren't either wicked or noble. They're like chef's salads, with good things and bad things chopped and mixed together in a vinaigrette of confusion and conflict.

Of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been.

They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for.

Monsters are real, and ghosts are real too. They live inside us, and sometimes, they win.

To love. To be loved. To never forget your own insignificance. To never get used to the unspeakable violence and the vulgar disparity of life around you. To seek joy in the saddest places. To pursue beauty to its lair. To never simplify what is complicated or complicate what is simple. To respect strength, never power. Above all, to watch. To try and understand. To never look away. And never, never to forget.

These woods are lovely, dark and deep,But I have promises to keep,And miles to go before I sleep,And miles to go before I sleep.

Get busy living or get busy dying.

Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.

I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity.

You cannot find peace by avoiding life.

If more of us valued food and cheer and song above hoarded gold, it would be a merrier world.

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.

Count your age by friends, not years. Count your life by smiles, not tears.

Sometimes I can hear my bones straining under the weight of all the lives I'm not living.

Death ends a life, not a relationship.

If you don't know where you're going, any road'll take you there

There's nothing like deep breaths after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world like a sore stomach for the right reasons.

The Seven Social Sins are: Wealth without work. Pleasure without conscience. Knowledge without character. Commerce without morality. Science without humanity. Worship without sacrifice. Politics without principle. From a sermon given by Frederick Lewis Donaldson in Westminster Abbey, London, on March 20, 1925.

Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.

We're all human, aren't we? Every human life is worth the same, and worth saving.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.

How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.

I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.

You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.

The saddest aspect of life right now is that science gathers knowledge faster than society gathers wisdom.

The one you love and the one who loves you are never, ever the same person.

Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know.

It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember sweetness. We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace.

Just when you think it can't get any worse, it can. And just when you think it can't get any better, it can.

The fear of death follows from the fear of life. A man who lives fully is prepared to die at any time.

But better to get hurt by the truth than comforted with a lie.

I'm the one that's got to die when it's time for me to die, so let me live my life the way I want to.

Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.

We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.

Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect -and I don't live to be- but before you start pointing fingers... make sure you hands are clean!

He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much; Who has enjoyed the trust of pure women, the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children; Who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; Who has never lacked appreciation of Earth's beauty or failed to express it; Who has left the world better than he found it, Whether an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; Who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had; Whose life was an inspiration; Whose memory a benediction.

The only way out of the labyrinth of suffering is to forgive.

Dumbledore watched her fly away, and as her silvery glow faded he turned back to Snape, and his eyes were full of tears. "After all this time?" "Always," said Snape.

I can never read all the books I want; I can never be all the people I want and live all the lives I want. I can never train myself in all the skills I want. And why do I want? I want to live and feel all the shades, tones and variations of mental and physical experience possible in my life. And I am horribly limited.

Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody.

Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.

Some infinities are bigger than other infinities.

Sometimes people are beautiful. Not in looks. Not in what they say. Just in what they are.

Folks are usually about as happy as they make their minds up to be.

Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.

Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.

Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.

For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness.

The Paradoxical Commandments People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway. If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway. If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway. The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway. Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway. The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds. Think big anyway. People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway. What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway. People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. Help people anyway. Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway.

I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I needed to be.

It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live.

Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans.

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.

To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.

Life is like a story. What matters is not how long it is but how good it is.

Life cannot be without mistakes what matters is which mistakes help you grow.

The most important thing in life is not where we stand but in what direction we are moving.

Life is really simple but we insist on making it complicated.